Periods & sex

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I have 2 questions for you ladies...
The first is, were you late or did you miss your first period after surgery? I was due for mine a few days ago, and am never. Ever. Late. My period was only ever late when I was pregnant. And the chance of that right now is slim to none! (partner works away)
My other question is, how long after surgery did you have sex? I understand this is a very personal question in itself, so realize that this question may be ignored by many!

Thanks ladies! This is like a gossip group at school!

Maybe out in the country, it is a bit different. Australia is a big place. There is a reason that Aussie Farmers go on TV to find a wife, its not that there are a lack of women in the country, its that a lot of these blokes spend all day talking to sheep, and not much else.

I have dated three farmers, and getting conversation out of them is like digging potatoes out of rock.

Maybe I need to move to a city to find a nice Aussie guy who can talk in more than monosyllables? Or crops?

[quote="gottarhyme"]...
Turkish men huh? Haven't had one of those. Is it like a Turkish Delight, cause I LOVE that!"
Mostly about the same as Arab men - if you get my drift. And Jewish. Can be a real delight!

LMAO @ Gottarhyme, you are too funny girl. Now for my 2 cents worth, my hubby is a true blue dinky di Aussie bloke, but he's definately not a selfish lover. I think if you are lucky enough to score a good one then just go with it :-D





Cheers

Jed



P.S Love this thread LOL

gottarhyme wrote:

Turkish men huh? Haven't had one of those. Is it like a Turkish Delight, cause I LOVE that!

LOL. That has made my day.

I can't help it.

I like the spicy talk, we are all girls here, and it is fun to have a giggle.

Turkish men huh? Haven't had one of those. Is it like a Turkish Delight, cause I LOVE that!



I love the way your fellas enjoy being in on the joke too.

Sorry ladies...but my hubby is a true blood Aussie and ALL man, 23yrs together and I would't swap a thing......ha ha ha
Does anyone remember what this post was about, because it is now sooo much better.

Too funny Michelle, i love reading these kinds of post, although i nearly spat my coffee over the computer!!!!



Oh gosh, i used every excuse in the book to NOT get it!!!! LOL But i do have 2 kids!!!!!

hubby is Turkish!!! - mmmmm no complaints here

ok ladies hubby took the laptop of me while I was reading your Italian men posts lol...sorry!

Yep. When it comes to staying power, Italian men have it.

LOL... My partner is Italian.



He's a good boy. ;)

*giggles*

I seem to remember that is true too, Aswan...When I was 18 I dated a very nice Italian boy.

;)

Behave yourself, woman! American men indeed!

Personally, I find my English/Italian OH very...umm...satisfying.

Well, Zoe. I rest my case. American men. They are GOOD!



Well..this is the SECRET women's thread. Shhhhh!



I do enjoy making people laugh. I mean, sex is seriously funny. And it SHOULD be fun, not a chore!

I thought I had had the blessed menopause without hot flashes because I had not had periods for many many months, but I have actually had mini ones since being sleeved. Darn.

I don't remember the answer to the second question - I hurt my back really badly the weekend before my operation, so I was suffering from a really bad back strain for several weeks after the op.

Zoe

Oh my lord!!!! I have not been sleeved so I can not help with the question at hand HOW EVER as usual you have seriously entertained me gottarhyme!!!! American lads you say??? hmmmm.... I wonder if there are many in Adelaide hahahahaha

gottarhyme - HAHA YOU devil you.....lol

LittleMissCee wrote:

Oh my word gottarhyme.. I just about spat my cordial at the screen when I read that, haha.

I have done the deed as such, but it was very uncomfortable, hence the reason why I'm asking. But hey, if it's all about me.. I have no problem with that at all!!

I am an old wise woman now. At 50 I can say what I think. LOL! With my experience of Aussie men, I find on the whole they are not creative lovers, and many are just selfish. I would prefer no sex at all than having some bloke huff and puff then fall asleep.

American men on the other hand...

My periods have definately been heavier and longer than before, I am on the mini pill to control random, long lasting periods, have been for a couple of years, was doing a great job too. Not now.

Sex-wise, I waited until I felt comfortable, probably just over a week.

Post-menopause, so first part of your question does not apply.

Second part: 2 weeks.

I'm kind of dreading getting my period now... For the last 6 months or so, my period has been terrible. Going for 3 plus weeks at a time, super heavy (this does not sufficiently describe the flow.. but it's the nicest way I can say it!), but not many cramps. Never been a cramper.

If (from what I've read on other posts too) it's true about periods getting heavier.. Oh wow I am SO in for a treat by the sounds..! I may as well get in all the sex I possibly can now cos it sounds like I'm going to be on an oil change for the next 5 years haha.

Hi LittleMissCee,
I had the same thought abbot sex. 5 days post op and would have loved to give hubby a happy father's day. But unfortunately to answer your other question, I think my surgery brought on my period, day 1 post op and 'hello' thank goodness I had packed my hospital bag in case & wonderful drugs like morphine & endone helped with cramps and back pain. Normally I am light and 3-4 days, but this is heavier and still going.

Loubylou...come on 44 isn't old, I have been married 21yrs and have a very adventurous life. I agree with Gottarhyme, there is more to it than just doing the deed.

Oh my word gottarhyme.. I just about spat my cordial at the screen when I read that, haha.

I have done the deed as such, but it was very uncomfortable, hence the reason why I'm asking. But hey, if it's all about me.. I have no problem with that at all!!

HI

Came home after 4 days and i think it was the next night but did tell him to be gentle and had no problems.

Actually...

I think that surgery is a great excuse for him to try some gentle pleasing of YOU. Tell him no 'rough and tumble' for a month, and ask him to get creative.

A little white lie to get some um...NICE attention that does not require actual penetration might be good for your sex life. Not everything is about 'the act' itself.

;)

Hi Luv,
My first couple of periods was all over the place - but they were very heavy. Before sleeve surgery, I could tell exactly which day I would get my period.

As for the SEX - I am 44, so probably took a lot longer to get back into the groove than a young thing like you would!!

Just make sure you don't hurt yourself. Better safe than sorry.

Good luck
xx

I have 2 questions for you ladies...
The first is, were you late or did you miss your first period after surgery? I was due for mine a few days ago, and am never. Ever. Late. My period was only ever late when I was pregnant. And the chance of that right now is slim to none! (partner works away)
My other question is, how long after surgery did you have sex? I understand this is a very personal question in itself, so realize that this question may be ignored by many!