How long after surgery before you can have Sex?

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Hi girls,

I just wanted to check on something. Its a personal question but.... well *blushing* here goes:

- how long after the surgery were you able to.... um..... do the bedroom dance?

Poor Mr PiercedMumma has been a bit each night but because im pre op i do not want him near me..... he remains hopeful but im so scared of falling pregnant its been ages (like months).

Im also worried with the weightloss AFTER the surgery I will be scared as well (even though im on the pill). Poor guy... i swear he is getting a bit about it but well........ TOUGH! Im too scared!!!!

Thanks!

As soon as your scars don't hurt anymore I'd think, although if he went gently, missonary, it might be ok, but this is a great excuse to not put out :P Milk it

Hi girls,

I just wanted to check on something. Its a personal question but.... well *blushing* here goes:

- how long after the surgery were you able to.... um..... do the bedroom dance?

Poor Mr PiercedMumma has been a bit each night but because im pre op i do not want him near me..... he remains hopeful but im so scared of falling pregnant its been ages (like months).

Im also worried with the weightloss AFTER the surgery I will be scared as well (even though im on the pill). Poor guy... i swear he is getting a bit about it but well........ TOUGH! Im too scared!!!!

Thanks!