Sorry, I can't help you with Sindylou, but sometimes people just stop posting for loads of different reasons. All I can suggest to you is read as much information as you can and of course think seriously about the complications that MAY occur but try not to focus on them. Take in all the information on offer through this forum and from your surgeon and then make and informed decision. Knowledge is power and when it comes to surgery you can not research too much. Good luck with everything.
Kate