how am i supposed to feel about that....?

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Hi all,

So my partner of 1 year as just made a confession....he can't stand my body and finds sex with me physically repulsive. This has left me with a pretty weird / confused feeling! Why did he even want to be with me in the first place then???? He chased me!
We haven't had sex since xmas and before that it was about three months so really we were only intimate for the first three months of our relationship. Before now he's always said he was just someone with a low sex drive and was never really interested.
I'm confused!!.....and now down in the dumps.....why say something like that....??

Exactly - what she said!!!

Oh sweetheart.

I am so sorry.

Men SUCK sometimes. They dont think, they dont care and they are just really horrible. (That said, some women are too!).

Now, I would be having SERIOUS considerations about whether or not I would want to be with someone who said such horrible things to me.

I am not going to tell you what to do, or how to do it. But you deserve better than this and I hope you know and understand that.

You do not deserve to be spoken to like that.

Men like this make me sooooo mad (can you tell im divorced?).

Please please do not feel down about yourself. I know its hard.......

Stay strong...... we are here to support you xooxxo

Hi all,

So my partner of 1 year as just made a confession....he can't stand my body and finds sex with me physically repulsive. This has left me with a pretty weird / confused feeling! Why did he even want to be with me in the first place then???? He chased me!
We haven't had sex since xmas and before that it was about three months so really we were only intimate for the first three months of our relationship. Before now he's always said he was just someone with a low sex drive and was never really interested.
I'm confused!!.....and now down in the dumps.....why say something like that....??