All alone on Christmas Eve, I am so upset!

Smurfette wrote:

Janette Have a great Xmas even if you are all wound up and alone; but sometimes hospital at Xmas time is really good fun. Take care

Thanks Smurfette, all I want for Christmas is to have my drains out.........LOL!!!!!

Michelle; so sorry glad you are going out for the night now; so sad you won't have your incredible girls with you though. You could drive over here afterwards; you may get here by NYE. lol.. if only I was closer, I would drop in and cheer you up. Take care and enjoy tomorrow.

Janette Have a great Xmas even if you are all wound up and alone; but sometimes hospital at Xmas time is really good fun. Take care

Thinking of you Michelle, and enjoy your night.



Well I am in hospital will have no visitors today or tomorrow, but its my decision to be here and have surgery this time of the year.

Have a wonderful night hon

xxx

I'm so glad that you are feeling better. Pity we didn't live just that bit closer, I would have been there in a flash. But as I said I'm only a phone call away. Go and have a good bitch with your godparents, and of course bubbles, and karma will take care of Marijaana. Thinking of you. Big Xmas hugs to you.

LittleMissCee wrote:

I'm glad you have plans... I won't write what I think of your ex & his missus.. because it involves some rather non-lady like profanities.

Enjoy xmas eve with your godparents... It sounds like you'll have a lovely night xx

lulumac wrote:

I'm glad you won't be alone - you have fun and an extra glass of cheer and tomorrow you can be Audrey Hepburn in your skinny dress, pearls and heels!

Thank you my darlings! I just spoke to Kate on the 'phone and I am feeling much better now! Plus its amazing how much cleaning you can do when you are angry and upset, so now my house is sparkly, and that's always a good feeling. I am going to pop on a DVD now, and relax. I just ate some yogurt for lunch and I feel happier.

Yep! I am going to put on the Audrey Hepburn dress as suggested Miss Cee!

*Hugs* and much happiness and good karma to you all.

I'm glad you won't be alone - you have fun and an extra glass of cheer and tomorrow you can be Audrey Hepburn in your skinny dress, pearls and heels!

I'm glad you have plans... I won't write what I think of your ex & his missus.. because it involves some rather non-lady like profanities.

Enjoy xmas eve with your godparents... It sounds like you'll have a lovely night xx

Thank you girls!

An hour or so has gone by, I cleaned the covers on the couch, I vacuumed (again) and worked out my frustrations.

Thank you so MUCH Kate! You are a true friend, and I would be straight in my car for the 1 and a 1/2 hour trip to your place in a nano second and very nearly did, but I calmed down, became an adult again, and got some perspective.

I called my Godparents who live in Wagga and I have been invited there tonight for seafood and bubbles. They are sending a car to collect me at 5PM. My Godmother cried too when I told her! So I am much better now. I haven't made a huge fuss about it with the kids, but they know that Marijaana has upset me.

Such a callous bitch! She is going to turn up at my mother's for Christmas lunch after her shift ends and pretend nothing has happened.

Mum has said that she is going to have a word to my ex after lunch is done. I think I will just have to pretend it is all OK.

Thank you EVERYONE for listening to my insane ranty rant. You ladies are the BEST, I really mean it!

Oh Michelle!



I wish you lived closer to me... I would come over and spend Xmas Eve with you...

But, go to Kate's! Like she said.. Jump in the car RIGHT NOW and get your tiny little bum over there!!

Thinking of you xxx

Oh hon

You have done nothing wrong, sadly as our kids grow up this happens, you then have the added burden of a nasty new wife in the mix. You are the better person here, and your girls honestly dont mean to hurt you im guessing they don't even know have, they are just trying to please their dad and then have Christmas with their friends while giving you tomorrow.

Now dry your eyes and get straight in your car and get to Kates, id say come here but Adelaide is a bit of a drive for you.

love and hugs

Mandy xxx

Mish, hunni!!

First of all, you are most definitely not alone!

Damn those ex's to tarnations! I have one of those too.

Sweetie, your girls are smack in the middle of loyalties so go easy on them (I'm sure you are). Even tho they're smart little cookies, they're young so first comes themselves, then their friends, then mum, then dad. You know come crunchtime, you'd be first though.

If you feel bad being alone tonight, you can pm me, I will be home. Or maybe.. help someone out? Soup kitchen kinda thing? It's a great feeling. I used to go with friends to the Hauptbahnhof (Central train station) and hand out sandwiches to the homeless sleeping out in the cold winter.

Talk to me anytime.

Love and hugs,
Lu

Oh hunni, jump in your car and come to my place. I would love to have you here for Xmas Eve. I'm so sorry you have been left on your own. I'm serious......jump in your car right now and come over. Love to you gorgeous.

Can't stop crying. God knows I'm being stupid, but I can't help it, so I need a Christmas Eve vent, if I can see through the tears to type.

My ex husband, you know the one I invite with his 'effin new wife to MY Christmas lunch EVERY YEAR because I believe in being the bigger person, etc blah blah blah!

Well, his 'effin wife has decided that she wants to have a Christmas eve dinner at her house with MY kids but I am not invited! After dinner, my girls are off to parties with their friends and I am left all alone on Christmas eve. I must say, didn't see it coming, and the girls are saying to me, 'We have to go Dad wants us there, and we want to see our little sister'. (Who is coming with her Dad to MY Christmas lunch tomorrow because his wife, a nurse is working!)

I am just heart broken, and none of them can see why, or why they should care about how I feel.

Their father hasn't even spoken to me. I can't stop sobbing. I dropped Helena down town so she can buy Christmas presents for her Dad, Marijaana and Aisha (the baby) and I had to go, because I was starting to cry at Woolies.

What horrible thing have I done to deserve this? What should I do? I just feel so sad!